A married man has taken it upon himself to sought for means to save his marriage after discovering his wife was emotionally attached to her married and pastor who has kids.
According to him;
“Hey guys I’ll just be brief. Straight to the point. My wife is having an emotional affair. What’s making it worse? It’s with a pastor with wife and children. Her pastor when she was in another state. Now they’re both in different states.
How did I know?
I saw her chat with him about 2+ years ago, and saw all the sweet name calling, the pet names and how they tell each other their activities of the day and even marital problems.
All the red flags and checklist of an emotional affair have been ticked by them, the only thing remaining is the sexual part.
We’ve been married for some years now, she was a virgin when I married her though I’m 100% sure they have not met since we got married.
But the issue here is that this is causing serious friction in our marriage.
When I first saw it, I gave some time to be sure and I confronted her and she denied and said he’s just her pastor (denial is one of the checklist).
Some months later they didn’t stop the communication, I was about to tell her mum when she visited. She pleaded and I let it slide.
Fast forward to 2021, they are still in communication. This time around the so called pastor is even always reminding her to clear chats so I won’t see it.
Now emotional affair is actually worse than sexual affair This pastor has a wife and I just pity the wife cos I can imagine how she would also be feeling.
I provide for the home, I also had to change from biz to the one that makes me travel to something that makes me work from home so she won’t say it’s cos I’m not always around.
We struggle with our sex life. What do I mean? She doesn’t like sex. She doesn’t mind if we stay 1 year without sex.
But me I’m a man with sexual needs. Now when I see the way she doesn’t like sex and I remember this emotional affair, it drives me crazy.
Those who have passed thru this, how did you overcome this challenge?
I don’t want a broken home for my children cos sometimes I feel like calling her people and telling them to take their daughter back. Infact I’ll dash them the bride price.
Do I go and get a side chick? But that won’t solve my problem. Guys come to my aid. Cause if we discuss this again, this will be the 3rd time we’re talking about same issue and same guy.,Sorry wasn’t brief “, he said
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