Current series of marriage and heartbreaks saga commonly called breakfast has risen especially in Nigeria over the recent months coming from the celebrities down to the regular people.
Another man who seem to be in distress over the same issue has taken to social media to seek for help after finding out on his wedding day that his bride has 3 children with another man.
Read below:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don’t know what to do in this situation
There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
I hadn’t been myself all day, so I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her.
She confessed and begged me to forgive her, saying she had been waiting for the right moment to tell me.
All of this happened on our wedding day, and she begged me not to tell anyone because it was a private matter between me and her; nonetheless, I insisted on telling my people from Enugu to Lagos.
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That’s how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September, church wedding 2nd October. But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don’t want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn’t talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don’t do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can’t trust me without court marriage
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn’t come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sign for me in the court
I don’t know what to do in this situation oo. Her first son is 13 years, 2nd son 8 years, 3rd girl 6 years and now she is pregnant for me.
Am 30 years while I don’t know her real age.
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this. During this period we have been together, she controls me alots and that make me sad. She shout at me too if she asks me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes a problem
Please what do I do ?
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