The Big Brother Naija winner says finding a genuine partner has become increasingly difficult as he reflects on modern relationships

Nigerian reality television star Hazel Oyeze Onou, popularly known as Whitemoney, has shared his concerns about Nigeria’s evolving dating culture, saying he is finding it increasingly difficult to meet a genuine partner as he grows older.

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Speaking in a video shared on social media, the former Big Brother Naija winner expressed frustration over what he described as a growing trend in which some women appear to prioritise financial benefits over building meaningful relationships.

Whitemoney, who has often kept his personal life away from public scrutiny despite his celebrity status, said the experience has left him wondering where to find a compatible woman.

“I can’t even lie, I’m getting old. Dating culture in Nigeria is becoming something else. Abeg where them dey see better woman now? Una get referral code. Any small thing, billing. Small hello, billing. How’re you, billing,” he said.

The light-hearted but candid remarks quickly attracted attention online, with many social media users debating whether Whitemoney’s observations reflect the realities of modern dating or unfairly generalise the experiences of Nigerian women.

Some commenters agreed that financial expectations have become more common in contemporary relationships, particularly in online dating spaces.

Others argued that both men and women face challenges in finding compatible partners and that economic pressures have influenced relationship expectations across society.

Since rising to prominence after winning the sixth season of Big Brother Naija in 2021, Whitemoney has built a successful career in entertainment, music and business.

The reality star has occasionally spoken about relationships and marriage, previously indicating that he hopes to settle down when he meets the right person.

His latest comments add to a broader conversation among Nigerian celebrities and social media personalities about changing relationship dynamics, financial expectations and the impact of the country’s economic realities on dating.

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While opinions remain divided, the discussion has once again highlighted the complex balance between romance, personal values and financial security in modern relationships.